Is Devorce and Remarriage Really the Answer?

If you read my posts you will see a simple theme, love the Lord with all your heart and let the Lord have free reign in your life. It’s that simple. How do you love a God that you can not see or sometimes feel. Well, you ask Him to help you love Him. It took me all of 70 years to understand that God wants to bless us through our love of Him. Before I talk about your marrage I need to talk about your first marrage with God Himself. When you get your first marrage streight then your marrage to your spouse will streighten out as well.

Marriages are not simple, I understand that. What we sometimes miss is that evil forces are at work to distroy you and your family.

Your or Wife was caught cheating, what do you do. It’s hurtful and painfull. Is this your, get out of jail card free card, or do you fight for your marrage. I knew a man that found himself with a cheating wife. He went to an outting with his wife and young children. His wife said that she wanted to drive to a near by store and didn’t return for three hours. The father stood helplessly on a street curb not tellng his children what had happened. Soon after the family members confronted the young dad and told him what they knew. The young man thanked the family but replyed, I know all about it but I refuse to give my wife up. Later the young man found himself parked along side of the road, beating on his steering wheel, why Lord, why. The pain was more than he could bare but he refused to tell his young children. The Lord gave the young man peace and simply said, now go on home. Why do we go through such trials? Arn’t Christians supposed to have perfect marrages? Sometimes we look at the offended spouse as the victim in reality both people are the victims. The wife of this young man didn’t try to hide the afare. The pastor of this woman made her into a slut. Something to young man would not agree with. Another man that the couple was counciling with called and said that I think your wife may have a demon. The young man and his wife nelt at the side of the bed and his wife asked for forgiveness from the Lord and her husband. She also commanded the spirit to depart. Her healing was maraculous. Over the years his wife would bring up her fail your. The young man, now older refuse to hear it. Today the young man is an old man. His love and joy is slowly slipping away. He told his wife of 47 years, I married the best woman ever. The best man, the best woman in your life may just be struggling today. Don’t give up your tomarrows blessings just because of today.